Transvestivism: A Fetish Too far?
This is a very strange way to view people who have a desire that is in many ways similar to many fetishes which are widely accepted and even fashionable from time to time. Many people, despite their own protestations to the contrary, have difficulties communicating openly about sex. Everyone
tennessee to have sex a particular way, some like to explore their desires while others repress their desires, in the same way as some transvestites.
Some men and women enjoy bondage, P.V.C. and leather; many have a fetish for hosiery, shoes, boots, and feet. This is also shown in transvestism, in fact many trannies start with exploration of these fetishes. For example one person I spoke to, explained to me that they first
lawrenceburg tn becoming a transvestite as a result of his fascination with women's hosiery. It was a compulsion for him, he loved the look and feel of women's hosiery on his girlfriend and decided one day to try a pair of tights on, that led to him wondering what it would be like to be fully dressed as a woman. From there it became an obsession, an addiction that he couldn't stop. Of course it has a sexual basis for his transvestism, but it explained to me what led him to becoming a transvestite.
I have read many articles and stories over the years and spoken to many different people about their own sexual desires, and I have come to the conclusion that the majority of transvestites are people who have a very
tennessee sexual desire or need to dress as a woman. I do not dispute that for some this is not true, their desire to dress is due to self expression and not borne of sexual desire. However for many transvestites that I have met it is a basic need for sexual gratification and exploration of their own sexuality that excites them.
Does this make transvestites, perverts or people to be hated? No, they are just normal people who have a sexual need just as everyone else has unique personal needs. They are no different to anyone, and should not be ridiculed for it. We as a society don't feel repulsed by people who enjoy bondage or some of the stranger fetishes that I know to exist, yet the trend is not so for transvestites. Maybe
tennessee because in our society we have created an image of men as providers, of tall strong types, and the thought of men expressing a weaker side to their emotions is just not conceivable to modern society.